Our Impact
What our grads say about us and their experience of the workshop
BRAD
In 2016 I was in a hard place. The last few years had completely taken the air out of my lungs and despite my best efforts I couldn’t escape the feeling that I was constantly sinking. I was broken and struggling to come to terms with a life that didn’t turn out at all the way I had hoped.
During a chance run in with my friend Adam he said “Brad, if you believe anything I’ve ever told you, if you trust me as your friend, you will go to Possibilities for Life. It will change your life.”
I had no idea what Possibilities for Life was (it felt like The Matrix, I was constantly asking “What IS Possibilities for Life??”) but I was desperate for a change, so I took him up on the offer and went.
Possibilities for Life radically changed my life.
It impacted everything from caring enough about people to remember their names and to be at places on time, to big things like breaking through my crippling trauma, understanding what I was putting out to other people, letting go of the victim mentality I’d fallen into, and realizing how desperately I was loved.
I didn’t drink a magic potion, in the 6 years that’s passed life hasn’t been perfect. I still have bad days, I still blow it. However, the training opened my eyes to see I didn’t have to live in the trenches I built for myself, that I wasn’t resigned to death, but could choose life. That idea alone was radical. The man I am, the Professor I became, I owe so much to Possibilities For Life.
No matter where you are in life, whether you’re in breakdown like I was, or you’re just not as stoked about life as you once were, or maybe you’re already awesome but just want to be MORE awesome, either way I make the same promise to you that Adam did to me: If you go to Possibilities for Life, it will change your life. I really don’t know many things in life that offer that guarantee.
CRYSTAL
Possibilities for Life is a creative way to truly understand who you are and how God created us to be. Generally speaking each of us have blinders that limits our relationship with Jesus and each other. These blinders are a result of how we were raised and how we were taught.
From my experience Christians have become self-absorbed and they speak about what God can do for me. They teach the Word of God but their actions are opposite of what they teach. As a result, they are hurting and damaging so many. It caused me to fall away and give up on what is truth. So what is truth? It is God's words, character, will and being reflected thru us in accordance and adhering to the principles revealed thru God's word. Its where the word matches the deed.
As a Possibility for Life team member, I am truly blessed. The blinders of religion have been removed and I am no longer limited by my perspective of truth. I know who I am in Christ. He calls me His beloved daughter so I must be His beloved daughter to people. Its about loving and valuing others the way Jesus loves and values others. I am about being a true reflection of Jesus. Love God, Love Others and loving yourself last. My perspective has been opened to see the beauty of God's Nature thru His nature. We are created in His image and we are to be His creativity to the world. The question remains; are you willing to get out of the boat to explore the endless possibilities of the life Jesus has for you? I promise the committment to this training is so worth it! Love Crystal
JONATHAN
My childhood was a nightmare—neglectful, divorced parents, a mom who forgot I existed after my sister was born, and the gut-wrenching betrayal of being molested by someone I trusted, only for my dad to brush it off as “kids’ stuff.” Abuse—spiritual, physical, emotional—piled on, alongside mental health struggles and autism. I saw relationships as battlegrounds, trusting no one, manipulating to survive. At 19, I was empty, hopeless, and ready to give up. Then someone invited me to *Possibilities for Life*. Skeptical but desperate, I went. Those four days tore me open, forcing me to face my pain, fears, and the lies of “perfect” Christianity. In that safe, raw space, I found acceptance, shed my torment, and discovered I was worth something. The Holy Spirit moved, and I walked out changed.
That training sparked a fire that still fuels me. I broke free from a toxic, codependent relationship, built meaningful friendships, and even met my wife, Constance, polka dancing—me, the nerdy introvert! A dream job at the University of Oklahoma came through divine timing, landing me a life I never thought possible. *Possibilities for Life* didn’t just save me; it showed me God’s love is real, no matter my past. I’m living proof of redemption and transformation.
**Imagine This**: Picture a life where your past doesn’t define you. Where you look in the mirror and say, “I did it. I overcame.” That’s what’s waiting. This is your chance to let God’s grace turn your pain into strength. Your story’s about to unfold in ways you never thought possible.
BRENDA
From March 20th to 23rd, 2025, I embarked on one of the most God-orchestrated journeys of my life — a journey that began with desperation and ended in deep, lasting healing. Just days before the workshop, I had hit rock bottom. I was grieving the loss of dreams, drowning in trauma I never asked for, and brokenhearted not just for myself, but for my children, who had suffered right alongside me. I remember crying in bed, talking to God, asking why — pouring out years of pain.
That same night, just after 1 AM, my Facebook message dinged. It was my dear friend Shelly Hayes. She said God had placed me on her heart and she spent the past hour reading my posts, feeling led to share something with me. What she wrote was word for word what I had just cried out to God about. It was one of those moments where I felt fully seen by Him — deeply, unmistakably seen.
Shelley told me about the Possibilities for Life workshop and a Bible study called Alpha Warriors. I told her I’d pray about it. And on the second day, I clearly heard God say, “I told you to step — now step.”
When I found out the cost was $399, I paused. I had only 61 cents in my bank account after years of spiritual warfare, a legal separation, and one hit after another. But then something powerful happened. I remembered that my sister, who passed two years ago, had always kept $399 tucked in her purse in case she ever needed to escape abuse. It was her safety net. I had held onto that money, calling it “Holy Money,” not knowing what I would ever use it for. But in that moment, I heard her say, “Use it for this, Bren. Then it’s truly holy.” And so I did.
This workshop delivered me from trauma I didn’t even know I was still carrying — trauma from childhood all the way through adulthood. It accessed a part of me that other programs never reached. You don’t have to be a Christian to go through this experience. It draws on a powerful blend of psychology and spiritual truth — rooted in a method that the U.S. Army once used to bring healing to trauma survivors by accessing the nonverbal part of the brain that communicates with God.
There were 17 of us in my training. Not one of us walked out the same. As a 22-year combat veteran, I can honestly say this program changed my life. I believe every veteran, every first responder, and every person walking this earth needs to experience this. It’s four days. Thirteen hours a day. And it is worth every second.
If you have questions, please reach out to me. I’ll tell you everything I know and help connect you with the team. The enemy plays hardball, but this program is a place where chains break and freedom begins.
CANDACE
Last fall I attended a PFL 4 day workshop. It was the most spiritually impactful time that I can remember. I attended only on the recommendation of a dear friend and came away with more deliverance and healing than I could’ve asked for or imagined. On two separate occasions during the 4 day workshop, I heard clearly from the Lord.
First, He exposed a lie from the enemy regarding DEATH. I had somehow begun to believe the lie that it was acceptable to desire to go home to be with Jesus MORE than it was imperative to live my life fully for Jesus now. Second, I found that I hadn’t dealt with some parental baggage and He revealed to me that I had been transferring those negative emotions onto my husband. Two key healings that I didn’t know I needed until this training revealed it to me!
I knew when the weekend was finished that I was so impacted by this training that I was to continue to support this ministry however the Lord led. I am happy to report that I wholeheartedly serve on a team that intercedes, encourages and supports this training.
It has been over 6 months since I attended PFL and I continue see fruit from this concept: every day I can consider and discover new possibilities for my life.
ELLIOT
Before the workshop, I didn’t realize how much I was carrying. I walked in thinking I was just going through a rough patch — but what I found was something much deeper. I had been holding back in my relationships, afraid to fully open up or let people in. Through Possibilities for Life, I not only forgave people I never thought I could, but I also learned how to truly love myself — and as a result, love others more openly and honestly. At first, I was intimidated being one of the youngest people there. But I’m so grateful I said yes at this age, because it changed the way I see myself, my purpose, and the people around me. I met brilliant, loving souls who helped me see that freedom is possible — and I walked out not as someone new, but finally as the person I was always meant to be.
MONTE
I'm 58 years old. My middle-oldest brother is 61. He and I have never got along -never as adults - because of our heavily use of our different vices.
Now, I'm California sober and he's tightened his grip on his vice and our relationship
has improved so much over the last 18 months we haven't yelled, argued, or even hung up on each other, once.
God is great!!!
Lauren Losawyer I really give credit to the PFL for this happening. I really applied so much from PFL to my life and it's helped me in so many ways, including this. I am blessed.
ELIZABETH
If you feel stuck, isolated, or in need of a breakthrough I highly recommend attending Possibilities for Life. I attended at the urging of a dear friend who I trust, and I received breakthrough during this event that I didn’t even know I needed or know was possible. Years later, after attending, I can look back and see how the skills and insight from this workshop have allowed me to navigate difficult terrain in life from a whole new perspective. I see growth in myself, and this training was the catalyst to new possibilities in my life that I would have otherwise been closed off to, including deep relationships with people in my life that I love and adore. I am so thankful I took a chance, showed up, and did the work. I can honestly say this experience changed my life and blessed me beyond what I could have imagined.
GORDON
I’m 76 years old married for twenty-eight years and a retired attorney. I have been sober for 20 years and graduate of two separate thirty-day inpatient treatments. Oh, how I thought I knew my own and other’s foibles. Looking for solutions? I got em’, just ask me.
Unfortunately, I had an orphan spirit, always believed I was alone and was best by myself. I knew that I needed to protect myself at all times because no one else would. I received exactly what I gave. Others realized I was a “taker”, not a “giver.” I had no idea what it meant to love others as Christ taught.
I never could understand why I had no intimate friendships and explained it away by believing that others were essentially selfish and would always disappoint me.
I knew nothing about PFL but begrudgingly enrolled because my wife was going. I thought that I could learn nothing new. After all, I had previously received one hundred and twenty days of intensive counseling, twenty years in a twelve-step program and regularly attended church and affiliated “home groups.”
I couldn’t have been more wrong. I had lots of head knowledge but almost no “heart knowledge.” I was still that lonely little kid that was focused on self-protection. It is inconceivable that I could have been so blind to the difference between love and loving like God. I am blessed with an understanding wife and friends that are willing to let me practice learning how to walk all over again.
Breakthroughs after PFL Training may happen suddenly or develop over time, in either case, PFL has dramatically improved my relationships.